中国大学MOOC: Good Communication for Making FriendsAs a communication skil

1.Many teenagers feel that the most important people in their lives are their friends. In large families, it is quite often for brothers and sisters to fight with each other and then they can only go to their friends for some ideas.It is very important for teenagers to have one good friend or a group of friends. The communication is very important in children's growing up, because friends can discuss something. These things are difficult to say to their family members． However, parents often try to choose their children friends for them. Some parents may even stop their children from meeting their good friends. Have you ever thought of the following questions? Who chooses your friends? Have you got a good friend your parents don't like? Your answers are welcome．选项： A:friends B:brothers C:parents D:stay E:discuss F:go G:You H:We’ve I:You J:Parents K:Children L:Parents M:Only N:They O:They

2.Many teenagers feel that the most important people in their lives are their friends. In large families, it is quite often for brothers and sisters to fight with each other and then they can only go to their friends for some ideas.It is very important for teenagers to have one good friend or a group of friends. The communication is very important in children's growing up, because friends can discuss something. These things are difficult to say to their family members． However, parents often try to choose their children friends for them. Some parents may even stop their children from meeting their good friends. Have you ever thought of the following questions? Who chooses your friends? Have you got a good friend your parents don't like? Your answers are welcome． Many teenagers think that ____ can understand them better. 选项： A:friends B:brothers C:parents D:stay E:discuss F:go G:You H:We’ve

3.Passage ThreeOne of the important things in the world is friendship. In order to have friends, you have to be a friend. But how can you be a good friend at school?Listen—Listen when they are talking. Don’t say anything unless they ask you a question. Sometimes it’s not necessary for you to have anything to say; they just need someone to talk to about their feelings. Help them —if your friend is ever in need of something, be there to help them .You should try to consider them first, but you needn’t do everything they want you to do. Try to take an extra pencil or pen with you to classes in case they forget one. Have a little extra money in your pocket because they may forget something they need._______—Try to make plans with your friends. Go shopping, go for ice cream, have a party, go to a movie and so on. Take time to know each other even better by doing something you both enjoy. By planning things together, you both can have a good time. And you’ll remember these things when you are all old. 43题. Which of the following can be put in the blank of the last paragraph? 选项： A: Make plans B: Enjoy yourself C: Understand your friends D: Play with your friends

4.If you don't tell others your feelings when you feel upset, ______. 选项： A、you'll have more good friends B、people around you will like you bette C、you'll feel better soon D、you may feel sick

5.If you have a good neighbor, you are a lucky person. You have someone who cares about your needs and your property , who is helpful in the little day-to-day situations that come up, and who is supportive in difficult times. A good neighbor is someone who, for instance, understands that your children may sometimes run across his lawn , even though you tell them not to. He'll realize that children can be careless about things like that, and he won't make a big fuss about it unless it becomes a regular thing. In the same vein, he knows that you'll understand if some of the trash from his trash cans blows across into your yard. A good neighbor is also respectful of your property. For example, he asks your permission before doing anything that gets in your way. This means he wouldn't plant a huge tree between your houses without asking how you feel about it. If he wants to put up a fence, he would let you know first. He might work with you to decide where it should be placed. A good neighbor would lend you some milk if you ran out. He'd give you a ride to work if your car was broken, and let your children stay at his house in the evening if you got stuck working overtime. You would do the same for him. Both of you would help make the other's life easier. When something really awful happens to you, like a death in the family, a good neighbor will offer to help in any way he can. This could mean something small, like making some food to put in your fridge to feed visiting relatives. Or it could mean something big, like helping you get through the sadness of the funeral. I think only someone who has experienced a bad neighbor can really appreciate a good one! A good neighbor can be a good friend. He can make a total difference to your life. Why does the author think it lucky for one to have a good neighbor?( ) 选项： A: Because a good neighbor can take good care of you. B: Because a good neighbor can hardly be found these days. C: Because a good neighbor can help clean your home. D: Because a good neighbor can support you in various situations.

6.If you have a good neighbor, you are a lucky person. You have someone who cares about your needs and your property (房产), who is helpful in the little day-to-day situations that come up, and who is supportive in difficult times. A good neighbor is someone who, for instance, understands that your children may sometimes run across his lawn (草坪), even though you tell them not to. He'll realize that children can be careless about things like that, and he won't make a big fuss (大惊小怪) about it unless it becomes a regular thing. In the same vein, he knows that you'll understand if some of the trash from his trash cans blows across into your yard. A good neighbor is also respectful of your property. For example, he asks your permission before doing anything that gets in your way. This means he wouldn't plant a huge tree between your houses without asking how you feel about it. If he wants to put up a fence, he would let you know first. He might work with you to decide where it should be placed. A good neighbor would lend you some milk if you ran out. He'd give you a ride to work if your car was broken, and let your children stay at his house in the evening if you got stuck working overtime. You would do the same for him. Both of you would help make the other's life easier. When something really awful happens to you, like a death in the family, a good neighbor will offer to help in any way he can. This could mean something small, like making some food to put in your fridge to feed visiting relatives. Or it could mean something big, like helping you get through the sadness of the funeral.I think only someone who has experienced a bad neighbor can really appreciate a good one! A good neighbor can be a good friend. He can make a total difference to your life. （1）Why does the author think it lucky for one to have a good neighbor? 选项： A:Because a good neighbor can take good care of you. B:Because a good neighbor can hardly be found these days. C:Because a good neighbor can help clean your home. D:Because a good neighbor can support you in various situations.

7.Passage ThreeOne of the important things in the world is friendship. In order to have friends, you have to be a friend. But how can you be a good friend at school?Listen—Listen when they are talking. Don’t say anything unless they ask you a question. Sometimes it’s not necessary for you to have anything to say; they just need someone to talk to about their feelings. Help them —if your friend is ever in need of something, be there to help them .You should try to consider them first, but you needn’t do everything they want you to do. Try to take an extra pencil or pen with you to classes in case they forget one. Have a little extra money in your pocket because they may forget something they need._______—Try to make plans with your friends. Go shopping, go for ice cream, have a party, go to a movie and so on. Take time to know each other even better by doing something you both enjoy. By planning things together, you both can have a good time. And you’ll remember these things when you are all old. 42题. When we provide help for our friends, we should _______. 选项： A: try to do everything for them B: consider them before ourselves C: change their bad habits first D: ignore their faults

8.When you come to a restaurant, a waiter maight not say to you like this 选项： A:Good evening, welcome to our restaurant.; B:I'll have an appetizer like smoked salmon.; C:I'll show you to your table.; D:Do you have a reservation?

9.When you come to a restaurant, a waiter might not say to you like this 选项： A、Good evening, welcome to our restaurant. B、I'll show you to your table. C、I'll have an appetizer like smoked salmon. D、Do you have a reservation?

10.When you come to a restaurant, a waiter might not say to you like this选项： A:Good evening, welcome to our restaurant.; B:I'll show you to your table.; C:I'll have an appetizer like smoked salmon.; D:Do you have a reservation?

11.Do you need friends? I'm sure your answer is "Yes,of course. Everybody does! " You need friends when you play and when you work. If you have friends, you will feel happy. If you have no friends. you will feel lonely (寂寞的). Do you know how to make friends? There is only one good way—You make friends by being friendly.A friendly person is interested in other people. He is always helpful If you want to make friends with a new classmate, you can talk with him, tell him about the other classmates in your class and try your best to be helpful to him. 选项： A:正确 B:错误

12.What does the passage say about making friends? 选项： A:People usually have fewer friends than they think. B:People do not have to like each other to become friends. C:People become friends when they get on well with each other. D:People consider age and background unimportant in making friends.

13.[单选题]It can be inferred from the first suggested step that （） is NOT likely to win you friends. A making others talk B being very talkative C telling people you like them D addressing others in an informal way

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Do you lack friends? Do you want to make more friends? If so, you may read on…

There's a certain beauty in being a lone wolf. You have more time to do the things you want to do. But if you want to make more friends, and do things together with them, please consider these suggestions on how to meet people and form strong, lasting friendships.

Spend more time around people and talk to them. If you want to make friends, you first need to put yourself out in order to meet people. Friends seldom come knocking on your door while you sit at home playing computer games.

Participate in an online community. You don't necessarily need to have a lot of common interests with people in order to make friends with them. Social networking sites such as WeChat, Facebook, Twitter, and My Space are a great way to meet new people and learn more about the people you meet.

Join a sports team. A common misunderstanding about this is that you have to be really good at playing a particular sport in order to make friends with others on the team, but not all teams are so competitive. As long as you enjoy the sport and support your teammates, joining a local team could be a great way to make new friends.

选项： A:正确 B:错误

15.Directions: Asa clerk at the front office in a hotel, After a guest has finished checking in. What would you do 选项： A、I will say,“I hope you’ll enjoy your stay with us.” B、I will say, “What kind of room would you like ?” C、I will say, “Would you please tell me your name and room number?” D、I will say, “ Good morning, what can I do for you?"

16.Of the following sentences, which can be used to start a presentation? 选项：A、Hello everyone. Could I have your attention, please? B、That's all I have to say today. Thank you for listening. C、Good morning/ Good afternoon/ Good evening, everyone! D、I'd like to present you with some information about ...

17.Directions: Asa clerk at the front office in a hotel, After a guest has finished checking in. What would you do 选项： A、I will say,“I hope you’ll enjoy your stay with us.” B、I will say, “What kind of room would you like ?” C、I will say, “Would you please tell me your name and room number?” D、I will say, “ Good morning, what can I do for you?"

18.If we want to make friends, we should( ). Do you need friends? I'm sure your answer is "Yes, of course. Everybody does! " You need friends when you play and when you work. If you have friends, you will feel happy. If you have no friends. you will feel lonely (寂寞的). Do you know how to make friends? There is only one good way―You make friends by being friendly. A friendly person is interested in other people. He is always helpful if you want to make friends with a new classmate, you can talk with him, tell him about the other classmates in your class and try your best to be helpful to him. (1.0) 选项： A、be politely to them B、be friendly to them. C、be afraid of them D、when we talk with them.

19.[单选题]Waiter: Prince Wales Restaurant. Good morning! Can I help you?Customer: Yes, I would like to book a table for two for tomorrow evening. Waiter: Sure, sir. __________?Customer: Around 6:30. A What time would you like to have your table B When are you coming C What time do you want it D When would you like to come